Courtesy is the most underappreciated virtue. You don't bother asking permission or thinking about what others might think about your action is pure selfishness. Like not being bothered to tell your friend that you are not coming to the party until the eleventh hour, like not being bothered to call and ask permission from the host to see if you could bring a guest along to the party, like not being bothered to keep a promise you make to your friend simply because you think: Oh, s/he won't mind.
Most of the time, s/he does mind.
Courtesy is simple. You just ask. But for most people, asking is too much of a bother. Picking up the phone to text or call is too much of a bother. Keeping a promise is too much of a bother. Oh, fyi, 'InshaAllah' is not a maybe/maybe not. It's a promise that you make and you WILL keep UNLESS Allah has another plan for you. So if you are not sure, don't say InshaAllah. You are insulting Allah's name because unlike us, He keeps all His promises.
Lack of courtesy is selfishness. It's that simple.
And it is NOT okay.
Ada sesetengah org suka je nak assume,
ReplyDelete"oh, xpe kot"
"eh, igtkan dia x kisah"
hmm, x membazir air liur kot kalo setakat tanya,kn~ (--")
suka like ayat "insyaAllah is NOT a maybe/maybe not, it's a promise you -will- keep unless Allah has other plans for you. You are insulting Allah's name because unlike us, He keeps all his promises."
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